This nine-week program is set up to identify your Saboteurs – those invasive thoughts that seem to stop you and get in your way from reaching those dreams of a life you’d truly love.

Most Saboteurs are developed in childhood up through your early 20’s. They are ideas and habits we formed in order to feel safe.  They were ways for our younger selves to deal with the stresses of life.  While those habits might have kept us calm in the moment, long term they lead us to feel stuck and burnt out, and they don’t actually solve the problem!

Saboteurs grow and strengthen themselves inside the Limbic area of our brain which controls the automatic survival habits we have grown comfortable with.  When you are able to recognize and replace those Saboteurs with clear-thinking and healthy habits that serve you, you move from the land of survival to the realm of the “Sage.”

In this program, you two private coaching sessions plus a group of like-minded people with whom you learn from, support and grow with as you replace your Saboteurs with new Sage practices that change your life, such as creative problem-solving, more empathy for yourself and others, and more appreciation for what you have in your daily life.   As you understand how your Saboteurs create your challenges, you gain insight into areas you may not have pinpointed before, and gain new confidence as you celebrate your wins, all within a safe and nurturing space.

The first step to getting started is to schedule your Complimentary Saboteur Debrief session and learn more:

* Take the Saboteur Assessment to identify your top Saboteurs at and click on Discover Your Saboteurs.  Take the quiz – about 10-15 minutes – then look for the email from

* Email the report to 

* Set up a Debrief session here: Schedule Appointment with LoveLeadConnect (

   NOTE: Come with your Top 2 Relationship Challenges you have – situations where you push people away or feel others push you away.

* Show up ready to get new insights into your relationships and challenges.

If you want to move forward, let Marilyn know and you can sign up for the next “From Saboteur to Sage” program!  

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Here's What You Get

    • If you want to move forward and become Mentally Fit by replacing your Saboteurs with new Sage habits, here’s what to do:
    • Sign up for the Foundations Program (see link “SIGN UP NOW” below)
    • Schedule your Intake Coaching session with Mari
    • — Identify your top relationship challenges  
    • — Complete a Relationship IQ Quiz and see the relationship skills you may be missing.  (Knowing both your Saboteurs and missing or weak relationship skils helps you understand why things can be so difficult!)
    • A 9 week program:
    • — Initial 
    • deos, cut into consumable bite-size portions and released each
    • Saturday.
    • 3 five-minute Daily Focus videos
    • Free journal prompts
    • A gamified tracking system to support you in practicing.
  • Small, intimate community “Pod” group with a maximum of 8 participants
  • 7 Weekly Group Calls to go over that week’s lesson.
  • Free PDF version of Positive Intelligence book by Shirzad Chamine
  • Program Completion Coaching Call at the end with Marilyn Sutherland

If you are interested in learning more about our From Saboteur to Sage with Private Coaching, please schedule a brief call to discuss with Marilyn

From Saboteur to Sage

Are you yearning tp create deeper connection with the people who matter most – your romantic partner, family, or best friends?

Do you want to show up so you are seen, heard, and garner more respect? 

Have you tried all the books, and spent thousands on communication, relationship, and other personal growth programs but nothing has lasted? 

 Then From Saboteur to Sage is right for you!